20th July 2021
You’re having a baby – congratulations! We’re here to guide you through the different stages in pregnancy, your baby’s development, midwife appointments and everything else you need to know over these life-changing nine months.
Whether it’s two lines on a home pregnancy test, spotting some early symptoms or getting the positive result from your doctor, finding out you’re pregnant is very special. You’re going to have a baby!
In the first weeks, you may notice some common early signs of pregnancy like morning sickness, tiredness, sore breasts and cramping. Although you probably don’t look any different yet, your body is busy preparing for the months ahead.
By now, you’ve probably missed your second period and the news of your impending arrival may have started to sink in a bit more.
You’ll receive a lot of information on everything from how to stay healthy during your pregnancy to the different screening tests that you will be offered. You’ll also be asked if you’ve thought about where you’d like to give birth.
In the video below, three mums talk about why they chose to give birth in a midwife-led birth centre, and what their birth experiences were like:
Around this week, the placenta has developed enough for you to pass oxygen and nutrients directly to your baby, connecting the two of you in a whole new way. Thankfully, if you’ve been suffering with early pregnancy symptoms like tiredness and nausea, this means that you’re likely to feel some relief soon.
You might not be thinking about running a marathon in the next year, but it’s never too early to start doing your pelvic floor exercises, which will help strengthen your muscles for the birth and recovery afterwards.
You get free NHS prescriptions and NHS dental care when you’re pregnant and until your baby’s first birthday, which can help you save money to put towards things like baby products.
If pregnancy has felt slightly unreal until now, that’s all about to change with the dating scan, where you will get to see your baby (or babies!) for the first time, and find out your due date.
Although it’s often known as the 12-week scan, this can happen any time between weeks 8 and 14. The sonographer will measure your baby from head to bum, to see how developed they are, and use this to calculate your due date. This will be written in your maternity notes, along with how pregnant you are in weeks and days.
The expected due date (EDD) gives an estimate for when your baby will be born – but a baby is considered full-term any time from 37 to 42 weeks, and 90% of babies arrive during this period, so try not to get too obsessed on the one exact date (yes, easier said than done!).
At the dating scan, the sonographer will also check that your baby is developing as they should be for this stage. If you choose to, you can have additional screening tests at the same time.
Aside from the routine ultrasound scans you’ll get from the NHS there are other private pregnancy scans you may choose to have as well. Before the 12-week mark, you can have a viability scan to check that things are progressing normally, and later in pregnancy you may wish to pay for a gender scan or 3D and 4D scans to get a closer look at your baby.
Now that the first trimester is coming to an end, you may be thinking a bit more about how you’d like to give birth. The place where you give birth can affect everything from which you’ll have access to and how likely you are to know your midwife, to whether you’ll be able to use a .
Now that you're pregnant you may be wondering whether you should have the COVID-19 vaccine. Here's what the experts are advising.
In guidance from 14 May 2021, the says: ‘The latest advice from the Joint Committee on Vaccination and Immunisation (JCVI) is that COVID-19 vaccines should be offered to pregnant women at the same time as the rest of the population, based on their age and clinical risk group.’
You should discuss with your healthcare professional the risks and benefits of having the vaccine so you can make an informed decision together.
As COVID-19 has more serious complications later on in pregnancy, you may choose to have your vaccine before your third trimester. The RCOG says that some women may choose to delay their vaccine until after the first 12 weeks, which are most important for the baby's development, and plan to have their first dose at any time from 13 weeks onwards.
The latest information from JCVI is that it's preferable for pregnant women in the UK to be offered the Prizer-BioNTech or Moderna mRNA vaccines, where available.